Dating has changed a lot.
There was a time when meeting someone meant a real-life conversation or waiting by the landline for a call. Now? It’s all about apps, and most importantly… texting. But while texting makes things faster, it also makes things trickier. A few wrong moves, and the connection disappears. If you're trying to turn texts into real conversations and maybe even a real date here are a few common texting mistakes to avoid (and tips to keep them coming back).
A single “Hey” or “Hi” is a dead-end. It doesn’t start a real conversation. Instead, try something like: “Hey! How’s your week going?” or “Hi! Just saw [something interesting] and thought of you.” Give them something to actually reply to. A small effort goes a long way.
2. Don’t Assume the Worst
They haven’t replied in hours? Maybe they’re at work. Short replies? Maybe they’re tired or just not great at texting. Don’t jump to conclusions or read too deeply into every delay. Texting lacks tone and body language, so always give grace before assuming the worst.
3. Don’t Wait Just to “Look Cool”
Forget the “wait 3 hours to text back” rule. If you’re interested and you’ve got time, reply. Playing games might get you attention but it won’t get you connection. Being responsive shows maturity, not desperation.
4. Don’t Get Too Flirty Too Soon
Sending spicy or suggestive messages too early can kill the vibe. Unless you’re both clearly on the same page, keep it respectful and light. Texting is about building trust not testing boundaries.
5. Do Be Honest
Texting makes it easy to stretch the truth but resist the urge. Saying you’re out living your best life when you’re really in bed with takeout? It might seem harmless, but it builds the wrong kind of connection. Be real. Be yourself. That’s how real dating starts.
